Well here I am, again. Back on this site. So I basically haven’t been on this in a while, since my last melt down. I think focusing on me was what I needed.
I left it that I had lost my job and that my life was over.
But now I sit here with a full time job in what I love I didn’t think I would be able to get back on my feet. It took me a week to find a new job (didn’t like it that much) and then a few months to get back into what I really wanted to focus on.
I am not going to sit here and say that it has been easy. It has not been at all. I have been fighting they feelings of not wanting to keep going, wanting to give up. But here I am still going strong and taking each day.
Depression is not easy at all. I get scared of feelings. When I think about all the things I could face such as heartbreak, a loved one dying, another job loss, another depression meltdown I don’t think I am going to be able to get through it. I don’t think I will be able to cope. It scares me. It makes me feel like giving up. Why should I sit and wait around for life to fuck me over and over again?
I mean there is only so much you can take in life. You feel as though you are getting back on your feet and then you fall. You fall without even seeing it coming and there you are. You look around and you recognise those dark thoughts and you realise your back where you have been running from for months.
A mean I sit here and think to myself am I really a nice person? Like, I thought I was. I thought I cared, I thought I was there for people. But maybe I am just this big fake. I try so hard for people to like me that I think I try so hard that actually I turn into someone I am not.
Why do we care what everybody thinks of us? Like why am I sitting her doubting who I am. I don’t even know who I am anymore. I lost myself ages ago and I can’t find her. I don’t even know who I am looking for anymore because she has not been with me for years.
Why do I always seem to be left. People just drop me. Am I not worth a fight, am I not worth forgiving an argument for, am I am worth it. I mean would you miss me if I was gone?
Depression, you are such a horrible person. You just take everything. Then you go on vacation for a few hours, days, months and then come back for more. Haven’t you had enough? Hasn’t the last few years been enough for you? Because I don’t think I can keep going on like this anymore. I can’t keep thinking I am getting better and then you show up out of nowhere, no warning and just drag me back to hell.
I don’t want to feel anymore. I want to be numb from it all. I mean like I don’t know how I am going to keep this fake life up for much longer and then when I crash it is going to take everything from me and all that progress will be gone and I will be back at the beginning and then I will start again and then build it all up again and then it will happen all over again. This is not worth it watching my world come crashing around me. Why would I want to sit around and watch this and let this happen and not being able to do anything about it.
Sooner or later I am going to run out of chances and starting again. There is only so many times you can start again surely.
I wish depression had a cure and not a recovery. A cure would be so much easier. Tablet and your all better. But hey nobody said life was going to be easy.
I just wish more people realised the effects that depression had on you. How it made you feel, how it changed you, how it took everything from you. Sometimes you just need a bit of loving and understanding. Love does not fix depression but it does help the journey.